Which grandparent holds the baby first. That’s the key here.
Which grandparent holds the baby first. However, if your SO will be there he of course takes precendence in holding the baby first before the grandparents. I know it’s a sweet time when a new baby is born, and this is their first grandchild, so I don’t blame them for wanting to meet and hold them. The Grandparent Gift Co. You already said *you* want her to hold baby first. My husband's parents would stay at a hotel, but we weren't sure yet for how long or how they Mom first. These grandparent rules can help keep the peace. I hadn't even considered… See full list on pregnantwomencare. So this is mine and my husband's first child and both of our parents first grandchild. My mom would stay with us for 2 weeks (using her PTO) to look after the house work, cook, clean, etc. After your mom holds the baby then either your dad (or his wife) can hold the baby. fhyfurhbz5xgjromrkqpdxq5betftg1htl4bblibpsvr